Its about the cult of virginity not about you.
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Thats why you hammer safe sex into them and that casual encounters are worth your consideration as well. This isn’t a one time discussion, it should be ongoing. It helps if you treat sex like something normal so the kids don’t feel stupid putting on a condome and respect EVERYBODY not just the “good girls” that
Nobody is saying that and that you are still bringing it up lets me doubt your mental capabillities.
SOCIETY should not tell the RAPE VICTIM that the VICTIM is DAMAGED.
Dude you don’t decide if people are respecting their bodies the right way. This IS some puritanical shit.
If you are so fragile that the wrong vag will destroy you than please do your dew dilligence and don’t fuck anyone you haven’t vetted thouroughly. But don’t speak like you have any authority over the rest of us.
First no, my first time wasn’t that great and i sincerly do not care about it at all. I still don’t get why everyone makes such a fuss about it.
Second this is not even what the tweet is about, it speaks about the expectation of young women to guard their virginity like a treasure and if they “fail” to give their virginity (as if it was present), to the perfect partner they somehow “got taken advantage of” and people pretend it changes something fundemantal about the girl.
Rape victims who didn’t have sex before the rape suffer especially under this. On top of the trauma they also get the message that they lost something important, are fundamentally lesser because of a dick that was inside of them.
This tweet is saying men aren’t special enough to take anything important from you just because their dick was inside of you, you aren’t funamentally changed, you don’t need to stress too much about it.
Virginity is just a concept, its not that deep. Otherwise lesbians would be virgins forever.
Maybe because they weren’t actually shaming any class.
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1622·7 days agoNobody is choosing a death rate. The acceptable death rate is obviously zero but live does not work that way. Come down from your high horse.
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11·7 days agoMost stay conservative though, not really a hopeful oitlook.
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There is no way to be this uninformed.
Klar ist das schwach aber fährst du deshalb nicht mehr mit dem Zug?
Das ist einfach falsch die Wahrscheinlichkeit dass die Praktikanten sinnvolle Bilder zurück bringen geht gegen null.
Ich mags auch nicht, aber wirtschaftlich gesehen ist das schlichtweg nicht behämmert. Den meisten Menschen fällt es nicht auf und wenn ist es ihnen wurscht.
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1·14 days agoOh i am not saying that there isn’t positive implications for small scale experiments i am saying that this isn’t waterproof evidence that we would see the same effect when done countrywide because the parameters change massivly.
waterwasamistake@lemmy.zipto
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1·27 days agoThere is no evidence. What we know is that generally, throwing money at poor people will have positive effects, thats it.
We have no idea how prices will react, we have no idea how culture around work might change when people grow up with such a system, we have no idea how employment will change and we have no idea what people will actually use their freedom for.
I am personally in favor of some kind of UBI but not because i believe without a doubt in its positive effects but i believe that the world belongs to all of us and simply being born entitles you to parts of the “fruits of the land” and if UBI really doesn’t work out i guess we might just deserve our fate.
Bei einer Rave Party würde ein Rechter der die “linken gutmenschen” nicht mag genausogut passen.
Rechte Gewalt schaut aber sehr oft anders aus und findet viel weniger mediale beachtung. Rechte und Islamisten sind sich zwar sehr ähnlich aber aufgrund der unterschiedlichen Möglichkeiten beider Gruppen machen sie sich schlichtweg anders bemerkbar.
Wir sollten alle keine voreiligen Schlüsse ziehen.

Which means no purity culture. BY NOT PUTTING ANY PRESSURE on the first time.
If YOU tell your kids it is special than YOU don’t let them experience it how they naturally would.