• HatchetHaro@pawb.social
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    3 days ago

    you’re mixing up sex and gender.

    sex is the genitals you are born with.

    gender is a societal role, stuff like “males are supposed to be strong and emotionally distant” and “females are supposed to be beautiful and submissive to males”.

    one does not necessarily have to lead into the other equivalent. why can’t men wear dresses and makeup? what makes something “boyish” or “girly”? why does a “male” or “female” label define what a person can and cannot do for the rest of their life? do they not get a say in what they want to be defined as?

    the only, only useful thing about biological sex labels is for medical and sexual purposes, and yet we base almost everything else in life and society around it. that’s just an inefficient use of space on an ID card.

    • mechoman444@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      I fully understand what gender and sex are and agree with the definitions.

      I fully support the trans community and people should dress in anyway they want to. The general crux of my argument was about how muddled the language has become.

      Man and woman have lost some of their discriptive nature. As a society that uses spoken language words have to have meaning.

      There is a disconnect between what people want to be and what people are. And for some reason when this aspect is brought up people become offended.

      Being what one is and wanting to be something else are different things. I want to be rich yet I am poor.

      People being a “man” or “woman” going around saying they’re not or are something else is confusing and only adds to the negative political nature of this topic.

      Why is this issue only localized to gender and sex why not to species? If people called themselves dogs how would that effect the understand of those words?

      Matt the idiot Walsh goes around asking aboriginals in Africa to define what a woman is one of the stupidest things I’ve ever seen btw.

      In the eyes of a stranger people are what they appear to be. If one looks like a man I will call them sir. If one looks like a woman I will call them ma’am. I’m not being offensive, I’m just trying to be polite.

      • WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works
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        3 days ago

        There is a disconnect between what people want to be and what people are. And for some reason when this aspect is brought up people become offended.

        Because you’re demanding I submit myself to a lifetime of harassment, abuse, and violence simply to appease your epistemological pedantry.