I will agree with your “moving the goal posts” comment. But my point is still that we all lived through a media barrage with everything positive about the vax. Even after they had to retract what they initially told us about it protecting you and others. Yet there has been no significant reporting on adverse effects. And I should mention I got the vax early on with zero side effects.
I think we will actually reach a point where most sexual encounters will be via virtual reality. You taylor the interaction just as you want it and get the same physical reaction as if it was real.