jointhefediverse.net seems to be a commonly linked resource for directing people to join the Fediverse.
Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives. Their GitHub README explains why.
Previous relevant discussion: https://lemmy.ml/post/78808
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tankie
I think that’s a well done description.
oh i thought tankie means different here