• quetzaldilla@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    It’s reasonable when you are inviting others to step in to correct your response, just in case you are misremembering something.

    It’s not other people’s responsibility to conduct research and finding sources on our behalf, but it’s fair to ask for sources because the person who initiated the conversation can share the source they are basing their information on, inviting scrutiny and dialogue.

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        3 months ago

        I mean, you care to elaborate? Use complete sentences, maybe?

        Because so far, it just sounds like you want to criticize, and not engaging looking to learn something or add value to the conversation.

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              3 months ago

              i think we’re just on the wrong page tonight. i feel like i had too much to drink and now i’m picking a fight with a friend’s friend. can we pick this up another time? i’m not a bad person, and i don’t think you’re one, either.

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                3 months ago

                Maybe you ain’t a bad person, but you certainly not acting like a good one.

                In the future, please choose to be kind and curious, not judgemental.

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                  3 months ago

                  i’ll take a different approach next time. i don’t mean to be caustic, i’m still getting over my reddit tendencies.

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                    3 months ago

                    A’ight. I believe in you, my dude.

                    Please don’t drink so much anymore because it’s not healthy, my guy.

                    Gotta take care of that bod.