• Guy Ingonito@reddthat.com
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    2 days ago

    Honestly, some of the women I see have profiles that are basically demanding an incredible amount of labor from their potential partners.

    No coffee dates, no walks. They want something planned out multiple days a week and in exchange they’ll put up with you grunting on top of them.

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      1 day ago

      They want something planned out multiple days a week and in exchange they’ll put up with you grunting on top of them.

      Lol, women enjoy sex as well my dude. With an opinion like that it kinda sounds like you may be stepping on your own feet there.

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        1 day ago

        I’m referring to these particular women, not women as a whole.

        There’s a type of woman who are essentially asexual, never masturbates, says they don’t really need sex, but still wants to be in a heterosexual relationship from either societal expectations or because they think a boyfriend is useful in other aspects of their life.

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          18 hours ago

          And there are some dudes who only want sex and aren’t willing to put any work into building an actual relationship outside the bedroom. My point being is that there are lots of different attitudes out there, but the vast majority of people are just normal people wanting healthy relationships.

          I think social media has really segregated people from reality and has warped people’s interpretation of others. It feels as if everyone believes they are the last “normal” person in society and everyone else is just intrinsically antagonistic.