• elucubra@sopuli.xyz
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    2 days ago

    I’m not judging women, I’m drawing red lines. I’m stating my preferences in dating situations. I also don’t like unkempt women for dating purposes, or overly tattooed, or too far right wing, or religious zealots, etc…

    I imagine you have some standards?

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        2 days ago

        Of course it is judging, everyone judges. You are doing so right now with those comments.

        People are allowed to have preferences. And too much make-up is indicative of having a fake personality. So I stay clear of those kinds of people as well.

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          And too much make-up is indicative of having a fake personality.

          It’s really not. Women wear makeup for all kinds of reasons. It’s really nobody else’s business but their own.

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          too much make-up is indicative of having a fake personality

          … or, you know, makeup is fun and we use it for self-expression. Jesus christ.

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        Descriptive. If you reread, i’m stating what ** I** find attractive.

        Anybody is free to do whatever they like as long as they don’t harm others, or cause an objective harm to society.

        Within those limits you may do as you please, and I’ll defend your right to, but I don’t have to like it.

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          20 hours ago

          Commenting in discussions about makeup, to tell wearers of it that your dick doesn’t get hard for them if they were their make up a certain way, is a very weird thing to do.

          Do you think people who wear makeup are doing it just for you and your pleasure, but as some are doing it ‘wrong’ you need to step in and correct them?

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            19 hours ago

            Sheesh, this is getting tiring!

            I’M NOT TELLING ANYBODY TO DO OR NOT DO ANYTHING! I’M NOT JUDGING! I’M SAYING THAT I LIKE CERTAIN THINGS, AND DON’T LIKE CERTAIN OTHERS.

            If I’m not attracted to furries, am I being a bigot?

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              18 hours ago

              If you choose to go into furry spaces/discussions just to tell furries that you aren’t sexually attracted to them… yeah, that does kinda make you a bigot.