• Rooster326@programming.dev
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      22 days ago

      My daughter has been a helper since she was 2. We encouraged it despite the very obvious frustration and now we have a somewhat competent helper years later.

      For anyone unaware how frustrating it can be. Watch the Omelette episode of Bluey…

      She was expected to do chores as soon as we believed her capable. That included bringing her dirty laundry to the laundry room. Putting dirty clothes away. Cleaning plates before putting in the dishwasher.

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        22 days ago

        You have to teach kids EVERYTHING its exhausting. When I first asked my daughter to put a plate in the kitchen the put it on the floor, just over the threshold of the door. She was about 18mo, and it was not malicious, just following my exact instructions.

        Either way I fully support your parenting practice and I do the same <3

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        22 days ago

        Oh man, my wife HATES the omelette episode, it’s too real for her. I tend to do better with the kids when we cook together, but it’s also down to the projects I pick. Making pasta from scratch is messy, fun, and you can be imprecise. Baking (her specialty) is not so forgiving.

        Chores, I think, are easier to teach but harder to enforce.

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          22 days ago

          Oof I feel her pain. Baking with children is rough

          I try to do a lot of mise en place before the kids know I am cooking anything. I would put them all the ingredients for all states in pre measured and put into easy to pour containers. Often I’d make 1.5x the dough so I could cut off 1/3 and that’s the kids bread - no matter how bad it is - I’ve still got the rest.

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        21 days ago

        Cleaning plates before putting in the dishwasher.

        Technology Connections fuming rn

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          21 days ago

          I’ve seen that video. I did try cleaning the filter and using prewash powder. Still have food stuck on if I don’t

          Could be because I have plastic cups/plates but with kids I feel I didn’t have a choice until they’re older